August 2009


 

Every other weekend I have to work on Saturday’s.  It’s really a bummer – we LIVE for “family day” (that’s what we call the days we are all together).  Usually family day is all about fun!  Sometimes we do have to work around the house – but we can usually incorporate fun into that.  So on the weekends I work on Saturday we must make the most of the one family day (Sunday).  A couple weekends ago we wanted to escape the heat in the valley so we headed to the beach.  I wanted to try a different beach so we headed to Crissy Field in San Francisco.

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why have we not been to this beach before?  Ridiculous!  This place is great!  You get more sunshine then the beaches in Bodega or Tomales.  Great dog beach and what a view!  Golden Gate Bridge on one side, Alcatraz on the other, and the exploritorium behind you – fabulous!

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there is such an energy being there…. the energy from the city, the energy from the ocean, and the energy of the people – let’s just say we were all energized from being there….

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afterwards we stopped off for a local IPA at The Marin Brewing Company, our usual stop on the way back from the city.  Gotta love a place that has a surf board with Jerry Bears displayed proudly on the wall!

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It’s so important for us to have these days, away from the house, not being reminded of the piles of laundry or dishes glaring at you.  Just the four of us, being together, enjoying each other and our surroundings.  It’s food for our soul – it helps me to be a better mama.

What are some of your favorite “family day” adventures?  We even enjoy a simple “backyard adventure”, anything that gets us together and focused on the present moment.

Last week we had two parties, Ryder’s good friend Piper’s 5th birthday and our friend’s baby shower.  I thought these were great reasons to find some time to get in the cottage and get creative!  Oh, it felt good! 

The first gift was for Piper, she is such a special little friend of ours and so I felt she needed a special little gift.  This is what I created…..

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I had this beautiful raw silk that I just love and some red/white ticking and it all came together.

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I was happy with the end result :)

We knew that our friend is having a boy, but they are keeping the name a secret.  I also knew the color of the room and the theme of the room so this is what I came up with…..

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the color of the room is green and the theme is kind of a jungle theme.  

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Wall hangings are turning into one of my favorite things to create.  You can do so many different things,  use so many different types of materials  – it’s like a collage – and then it just all comes together. 

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Oh, how I wish I could do this full time (well I don’t know if I ever really want to do anything full time – besides being a mama) but I wish I could walk out into my cottage for work and create all day!  Now that would make me happy :)

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10 years ago a furry orange guy came into our lives and our hearts and his name was Mojo (or as we liked to call him Mo kitty, Mo Cat or The Great Mouser) and today he leaves our lives but never our hearts.

 10 years ago Doug, Wanagi and I were living in Healdsburg on top of little hill, in a little cottage overlooking one of the most beautiful valleys ever, Alexander Valley.  We were a happy little family.  I had this obsession with going to the local animal shelter and torturing myself with visiting all the animals in there.  I’m surprised we didn’t have a house full of 4 leggers.  But I restrained myself – instead I found animals for our friends.  But I so wanted a cat.  I saw this black and gray tabby that was adorable.  I had been eyeing him on a couple visits, Doug wasn’t totally sold yet.  So one day when Doug and Wanagi were taking their Saturday afternoon nap, I headed out to the shelter.  To my dismay, my black/gray tabby was nowhere to be found?  I went into the cat room and immediately this little orange tabby came right up to me and rubbed all over me, purring and just so happy and sweet.  Well that was it, he had me the first moment our eyes locked – I fell in love.  So I called Doug and he was still a bit apprehensive but the shelter required Wanagi to meet Mo before they would let us take him so they came to meet him and of course Doug was smitten immediately too.  Actually so was Wanagi (much to many peoples surprise – especially our vet- his comment was “that dog let another animal into your house?!”).  Well Wanagi and Mo were fast buds.  We have many memories of them lying on the couch together and the back porch.  Going back to the animal shelter (the black/gray tabby happened to be in isolation b/c it was getting neutered and given shots- so it was fate that Mo was to be our kitty). 

 So back to the homestead, Wanagi couldn’t get enough of Mo, always sniffing’ him (that big head of Wanagi’s always up in Mo’s business!)  That’s a good cat to put up with that behemoth always sniffing’ around him.  Mo took to life on the hill instantly.  There was a plethora of things to do, climb trees, run around the hillside, hunt, an abundance of mice to chase, always birds to watch and a cozy chimnea to curl up in for napping. 

 After a couple more years on the hill, we finally found our house in Sonoma and moved out of the country into town (most people actually consider our neighborhood to be a country neighborhood- regardless we had neighbors now!).  Not sure how Mo was going to do in a neighborhood – he was so used to being out in the country on 10 acres.  Well he loved his new yard.  We have made all kinds of special places for him to lay and hide in – one of his favorites is under the Japanese Maple in the front of the house.  We have an abundance of birds that visit us so there was always someone for Mo to stalk, as well as all the chatty squirrels. 

 Soon after moving to Sonoma we found out we were pregnant – soon came Ryder.  Poor Mo took a backseat knowing there was a new member in the family.  Mo always kept his distance, wasn’t really sure about this new little guy. But once Ryder got old enough to start toddling around and seeing a cute furry little one – that was just irresistible - we knew we’d have to keep a close eye on him.   Well, we knew that Mo would let you know if he didn’t want you by him- sometimes he’d give a “loving” little swipe with his paw (the joke was that Wanagi was even afraid – he wouldn’t walk by him when he sat on the step going down to our sunporch! – 115lb dog afraid of a 15 – 20 lb cat!).  Mo was really nice, though – never vicious.  But anyway, one day Ryder went toddling over to the rocking chair where Mo lay and he just buried his sticky little face into Mo’s furry little belly.  At first I was a bit nervous – but I quickly saw how calm Mo was and how gentle he was with Ryder – it was amazing.  He knew how to be gentle with the kids – it’s funny how animals know these things. 

Well a few months ago we noticed some weight loss and we brought him in to the vet and got a bad diagnosis.  As the next few months past we continued to see a decline – and when I realized he was unable to jump up to sleep next to me at night I knew that he wasn’t himself.  We said goodbye to Mo at 5:30 p.m on Friday July 31 – he peacefully went to meet his buddy Wanagi who was waiting for him.

Mo will be greatly missed – we miss you Mo and you will live in our hearts and memories.